How to Cultivate Empathy in Our Children and Why it Matters
First published on April 24 2021: https://dadvengers.com/how-to-cultivate-empathy-in-our-children-and-why-it-matters/ ‘Don’t mess with that cupboard; its got poison in it; and poison is so dangerous, people can die if they drink it. What would Mommy and Daddy do without their little boy?’ The 3 year old boy looked at his Daddy and said, calmly, ‘but Daddy, you could just get another little boy.’ This conversation stays with me. It marks the beginning of my curiosity about our childrens’ empathy and it’s led me on a journey filled with so many questions: Are we born with the ability to read and respond to each others’ feelings? If not, when does this develop? Does it happen naturally or does it need to be taught? Why might this be important? How empathetic am I? How might understanding empathy help me support my two children, now 7 and 9, to grow up well and happy? Empathy, commonly confused with sympathy, is not feeling sorry for so...